For so long I struggled with everything, from what to do as a career to the future of my relationships I was having to decide what to do. I was unsure what to study at uni, as what I was doing was making me miserable but I thought I needed to study it to be able to provide for my future. This was then making me doubt and question what I was going to do in my future with Jamie as I wasn’t happy with what I was studying but didn’t want to jeopardize what I had planned.

Though long conversations with Jamie we had worked out a plan for the future which made my decision easier and that’s mainly where this article is coming from. There have been conversations I’ve had with people that talk about how they are not happy. That they have been forced into doing something or have been told not to do something by a teacher, parent, or friend. A word of advice is to do what makes you happy, if you are studying law in uni but you hate it and you are only doing it because your parents are lawyers, then stop studying it and go do what you want to do.

For me, I was doing science and as a hobby, I was really into technology and computers. So when it came to a time where I was failing my science course because I was unhappy I decided to follow what made me happy and that was programing. I was also at a very high demanding job where even when I was home they required me to work and complete projects which were making things harder on me and Jamie. I then decided to quit and move onto a new place that had a better work environment and had more work than I enjoy doing.

These guys in the picture, not just my wife but also my cats (i know that might seem strange). These guys are the ones I make myself better for, they are MY family and no one else’s. Yeah, they might be someone’s daughter, son, cousin, brother, or sister but they are my family. You don’t necessarily need someone like this to push you to do what you love but having that motivation can mean all the difference. If you are not happy with what you are doing then get up and make a change.

If you need someone to motivate you then that’s what I’m here for, I’m here to give you that push. I’m the one you can choose to make yourself better for. Never ever stop doing what you love and never stop making yourself a better person and improving yourself.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x4m9SW06b4w

Above is a video of a friend of mine who makes youtube videos, he recently made a video saying that you should never stop doing what you love and to push through.